Speedtwin, in a strange way being told you have a probable maximum amount of (short!!) time left is somewhat a lifting of that immense pressure to 'get those damm projects done' that inevitably grab your attention as you walk into the workshop and brings a clarity of thought that I never considered I ever possessed!!!Heh Phil,
Very sorry to hear your bad news.
Maybe a lesson for all of us there.
Non of us know for sure, The Doctors have got it wrong so many times,Speedtwin, in a strange way being told you have a probable maximum amount of (short!!) time left is somewhat a lifting of that immense pressure to 'get those damm projects done' that inevitably grab your attention as you walk into the workshop and brings a clarity of thought that I never considered I ever possessed!!!
I now absolutely know what projects will not ever get done - so that all has to go, that in turn 'might' free up enough space to allow the 'just possible' projects to now actually get on the bench, even with now limited mobility and then that allows all those 'just in case' spares to be disposed of without any nagging doubts, because the 'in case' can now never happen! Quite liberating really.
Only down side is that I realise that I will never again get to ride again the race outfits and that I can only possibly be a pillion on the road bikes (if I am quick with them on the bench!). That is the only stinker about my situation, the rest is (sort of) bearable.
But I have never, ever, understood the 'Distel', 'Emmerich' type mindset, buying for the sake of buying. There are never any pockets (or shelves!) in shrouds!
I avoid them like the plague myself. My son was having a very hard time learning to read and stay focused. His pediatrician suggested he be evaluated for learning disabilities. We went to the recommended doctors. Who evaluated him and basically said he was an imbecile barely above moronic and should be institutionalized. I was devastated. My wife was seething mad and ready to rip this doctor to shreds. Long story short we took him elsewhere turns out he has ADHD and dyslexia. A little bit of medication (very little in fact) and some tutoring he is now going into the 8th grade and getting top marks in school, in a decent public school. It's hard work for him and he gets frustrated somedays, but keeps at it. He's just turned 14 and asks intelligent questions about current events and has is far more empathetic to peoples feelings than I ever was at his age.Non of us know for sure, The Doctors have got it wrong so many times,
I try NOT to talk to them.
They wrote the wife's Grandson off on his day one !!,
He has just turned 13 !!.
One Day at a time, Good Luck, Bill.
The North American version of that saying is " There aren't any roof racks on the Hearse"Speedtwin, in a strange way being told you have a probable maximum amount of (short!!) time left is somewhat a lifting of that immense pressure to 'get those damm projects done' that inevitably grab your attention as you walk into the workshop and brings a clarity of thought that I never considered I ever possessed!!!
I now absolutely know what projects will not ever get done - so that all has to go, that in turn 'might' free up enough space to allow the 'just possible' projects to now actually get on the bench, even with now limited mobility and then that allows all those 'just in case' spares to be disposed of without any nagging doubts, because the 'in case' can now never happen! Quite liberating really.
Only down side is that I realise that I will never again get to ride again the race outfits and that I can only possibly be a pillion on the road bikes (if I am quick with them on the bench!). That is the only stinker about my situation, the rest is (sort of) bearable.
But I have never, ever, understood the 'Distel', 'Emmerich' type mindset, buying for the sake of buying. There are never any pockets (or shelves!) in shrouds!
Al, humour is good here, no poor taste detected, ref the scaring, after I got used to going to the blind left handed crest just before going over and down into Donnington's Craner Curves flat stick with the rear wheel sliding in fourth gear on a TZ750 yamaha 'conventional' (short wheelbase) outfit my 'friends' try very (very!) hard to scare me, every time!!!! The 'friends' with road oufits stopped trying, he he.Well said Phil it is indeed a shite stuation to be in.
I am very sorry you must be realy feked off.
Lesson is for all of your Vincent owning and riding friends here the ones you have met and the ones you have not.
We all need to live for the day and enjoy whatever floats our boats while we can.
My hat goes off to you for speaking so candidly about this you have all my best wishes and support.
I am sure it will be difficult to part with your projects but as you say it may be freeing in a way.
The not riding is the worst hopefully you have some buddies that will strap you in and scare the life out of you..
Poor taste humour as usual.
Keep the pecker up.
Al