I was flicking through my new book, Into The Millenium, and there was an bit about using RTV by, I think, Kim Sidorn. He suggests smearing the RTV onto a gasket and leaving it overnight to set, making a “rubber” faced gasket.
Using your idea of a thin aluminium spacer, “rubber” faced for the different contact areas on each side, rather than adding double sided paper gaskets on each side may be an even better solution.
Using your idea of a thin aluminium spacer, “rubber” faced for the different contact areas on each side, rather than adding double sided paper gaskets on each side may be an even better solution.